net: use &self with TcpListener::accept (#2919)

Uses the infrastructure added by #2828 to enable switching
`TcpListener::accept` to use `&self`.

This also switches `poll_accept` to use `&self`. While doing introduces
a hazard, `poll_*` style functions are considered low-level. Most users
will use the `async fn` variants which are more misuse-resistant.

TcpListener::incoming() is temporarily removed as it has the same
problem as `TcpSocket::by_ref()` and will be implemented later.

examples/proxy.rs

@@ -43,7 +43,7 @@ async fn main() -> Result<(), Box<dyn Error>> {
     println!("Listening on: {}", listen_addr);
     println!("Proxying to: {}", server_addr);
 
-    let mut listener = TcpListener::bind(listen_addr).await?;
+    let listener = TcpListener::bind(listen_addr).await?;
 
     while let Ok((inbound, _)) = listener.accept().await {
         let transfer = transfer(inbound, server_addr.clone()).map(|r| {