net: use &self with TcpListener::accept (#2919)

Uses the infrastructure added by #2828 to enable switching
`TcpListener::accept` to use `&self`.

This also switches `poll_accept` to use `&self`. While doing introduces
a hazard, `poll_*` style functions are considered low-level. Most users
will use the `async fn` variants which are more misuse-resistant.

TcpListener::incoming() is temporarily removed as it has the same
problem as `TcpSocket::by_ref()` and will be implemented later.

examples/echo.rs

@@ -39,7 +39,7 @@ async fn main() -> Result<(), Box<dyn Error>> {
     // Next up we create a TCP listener which will listen for incoming
     // connections. This TCP listener is bound to the address we determined
     // above and must be associated with an event loop.
-    let mut listener = TcpListener::bind(&addr).await?;
+    let listener = TcpListener::bind(&addr).await?;
     println!("Listening on: {}", addr);
 
     loop {